Potty training diaries: We did it (kind of)

Potty training diaries: We did it (kind of)

Potty training from the front line – Was it a success?

4 weeks in, how did we get on with potty training?

Well, to be honest, it’s subjective.

I’ve been p**sed on.

I’ve been shouted at.

The extra steps walking to the toilet all day means I’ve hit my daily step goal on my Fitbit.

And I now have a specialist skill to seek out a public loo as I enter a room.

But…

Lady P is getting it!

She will sit on a potty when I ask her to, and she will wee.

She will ask to go on the toilet first thing in the morning, and will produce the goods.

She has just started to tell me she needs a wee and sometimes she wants to do more than just wash her hands or get a sticker.

cheeky toddler

So what have we learned…?

Wait until they are ready – there is no point starting too early or they will just reject the idea out of hand. If you are not sure, check this guide out from Dry Like Me for spotting the signs of readiness to potty train.

Prompt, prompt and prompt again – they may be like Lady P and not fully aware of the need to go straight away, so introduce toilet / potty time and keep popping them on to try.

Find a trigger – find Peppa Pig doing a pee, use a potty training game, or just suggest that something fun will happen after they have had a wee. Whatever works, exploit it.

Use friends – if any friends or older siblings are already potty trained, invited them over on playdates to show them the ropes. It’s amazing how much more a toddler will listen to another toddler rather than us ‘grown up’ squares.

Reward – use stickers and reward charts to incentivise any progress.

Pack a lot of spare clothes – for days out or nursery.

Be consistent – ask partners or nursery staff to also follow the same routines.

Carry a potty – Lady P had 2 car park wees and a one at an old manor house last week!

Stay calm – no matter how infuriated you are by yet another accident, try to stay calm, don’t shout at them, and just explain the process again.

Spot patterns – if accidents always occur during mealtimes, pop a nappy on to pre-empt it.

And finally…

We are not yet nappy-free, but we certainly go through a lot less nappies than we did.

I know that putting a nappy back on may confuse kids, but Lady P knows that she sleeps in a ‘night time’ nappy, and has one on at mealtimes. I am not entertaining daily deep cleans of the highchair, so this is just the way it is going to be.

If we are out and I don’t think she can cope in just knickers, she is allowed a pull up nappy, but I get her to wee on the potty or toilet in the same intervals as if she was at home. Most of the time she will wee, and her nappy is often dry when I try her.

I will carry on with this routine and hope that these good habits we have set in place will lead to her starting to ask for the potty.

Fingers crossed, she will be out of nappies for good but her 2nd birthday!

Will keep you posted 😉

We are taking part in Potty Training Live with Dry Like Me. It’s free to sign up to and starts on Monday 24th July 2016. Sign up at pottytraininglive.com

 

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Disclaimer: I work on a freelance basis with Dry Like Me, but this blog is based on my personal experiences and not manipulated by Dry Like Me. 

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Nicole - Tales from Mamaville
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Brilliant! Well done both of you!!! Gives me hope:)
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Mama, My Kid Doesn't Poop Rainbows
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Wow, sounds like it’s all going really well. I’d have never thought to bring the potty with me. Good idea- thanks!

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Bridie By The Sea
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Ah this is fab – well done you! Sounds like amazing progress and great tips which I am definitely saving for when we enter potty training zone soon. Thanks for linking up to the #dreamteam Hope you come back next week! xx

Peggy
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I used to let mine run around naked when we were home. Something about not having any security triggered when they needed to go and for us it worked. I think too as you said, it’s all when they are ready. #fartglitter

Helen
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I’m honestly terrified about potty training – my daughter is 16 months so we’ve got a bit of time yet but I’ll be remembering these tips. Thank you! #ablogginggoodtime

Helen x

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Catherine
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Great work! We are a long way off having to tackle this but it’s really good to read other people’s experiences! #ablogginggoodtime

An imperfect mum (Catie)
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It’s been a while since mine were potty trained but these are really good tips. Thank you for linking up to #ablogginggoodtime 🎉

Mum in Brum
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Our tot is 20 months now so this made for really useful reading – she’s not ready yet, but it was so helpful to read those pointers. Sounds like you’ve handled it just right. I think the most important thing is to not rush it and don’t stress out too much if it doesn’t happen overnight. This gave me some hope when the right time comes for us! x #picknmix

A Cornish Mum
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My boys are 10 and 12 so I can vaguely remember potty training, I remember it being pretty hellish for us so I am pleased it isn’t something I will ever need to do again ha, but great tips. Thanks for linking up to #Picknmix

Stevie x

Crummy Mummy
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Wow two is early – that’s good going! #picknmix

Laura Life with Baby Kicks
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Brilliant, it took mine until he was 3 before he was even interested in starting but it’s been fairly smooth sailing after the first month! We went through a lot of clothes!!!! #TheList

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